If you think life is tough, think again. Life is brutal! You are in charge of maneuvering through life. It’s your job to make the best of it. There is no excuse. There is only - life.
What would you be able to do in your life if you had all the money you could dream of? If you could walk on water? If you looked like Brad Pitt?
To me, that is exactly what the principles behind the lifestyle of the pick up artist and pick up coaching is all about. And, actually, as it just so happens, it’s one of my favored coaching tools… To imagine that we have all the resources available to us, and then just go out there and start ACTING like it. Curious things will start happening in life when we do this.
I remember giving a speech at a free seminar, and I was covering the topic of “beliefs” - that’s kind of a big chunk, so I specifically focused on working with the beliefs of the participants through sharing some of my own.
Side-note: I take pride in contributing at free events - and you are welcome to contact me if you want to book me for an event!
One of my core beliefs in terms of attracting women is: “I am the best pick up artist in Denmark.” I delivered this line, and supplemented: “… I actually believe I am the greatest pick up coach in the world!”
I also believe that all persons command my respect for their model of the world - at all times. And that the only reason we sometimes excuse ourselves is that we have yet to find a better strategy to produce results - in life.
Sometimes we fear hitting rock-bottom, and let me tell you this from personal experience: I have hit rock-bottom so many times that when I consciously think about it, I’m amazed I am still here, blogging away, right now. So, why -
Simple really.
Everytime you hit rock-bottom, you learn that you didn’t die.
And, when you’re at rock-bottom, you still cannot go back. You can only learn, and go forward. Guess what… happens when you are at the bottom of the curve, and you look forward - you will find it easier to look up now, will you not?
That’s my learning today. When I look forward, I look at a steep climb to the next level - of life. And when, not if, the climb levels out I will be able to look back down that mountain and say “Wow, I just grew my life an inch!”
It doesn’t matter to me if it’s AA (approach anxiety), oneitis (not moving on when your relationship is over), personal growth in general… I just experienced massive personal growth!
So, now that you know - what are you going to go do right now, remembering that you have all the resources you need to grow?
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