Powerful Connections

You must measure yourself on your ability to act, and evaluate the results of your actions independently of your potential. 

Consequence: Consciously reframe externally referenced goals into internally referenced goals, and enjoy the power of acting.

You must seek to establish a frame of positive communication and thereby open a window of opportunity, and it is your ability to act on your nature and communicate freely that drives open that window. 

Consequence: Approach people and say whatever positive thought or observation comes to mind!

You must enforce a frame of sensual communication immediately upon identifying that you are attracted to someone, thereby widening the window of opportunity. 

Consequence: Touch people physically from the first second you internally acknowledge your interest in or attraction to them. This includes guys!

You must communicate in terms of emotions and values in order to create genuine and long-lasting connections, thereby widening the window of opportunity. 

Consequence: Help your counter-part bring forward what they value and the emotions associated with these values, and tell them how you feel about it.

You must follow through on the communication that you are sending out through the frame of sensual communication, in order to make the window of opportunity stay open. 

Consequence: Be brave, and walk the talk of principle #2. Always reward positive behavior of your counter-part with (verbal or physical) escalation.

You must respect the counter-part in the positive and sensual communication frames, and move forward together in the pace within these frames, thereby ensuring that one of you can move through the window of opportunity.

Consequence: Communicate with ambiguity so that the counter-part can decide to move through the frame. Close the deal when it is natural to both of you.