A few months ago I was contacted by some sociology students that were writing their final paper and had chosen to go in-depth with the seduction community - why does what we pickup artists do work, and how?
I was amazed as I read through their findings. To see all the theoretical background and to read the names of so many great thinkers that had theoretically and physically proven the why’s and what’s behind our successes. It also struck me that the linkage between the scholastic theories and the physical application in the seduction society was new to many people.
The team behind the report have allowed me to share it with the world and I will, soon enough. This post is about something completely different. My role in the report was to serve them as an expert - after all a longwithstanding member of the PUA society should have some insights, particularly when he also holds thousands of hours worth of coaching experience.
Information that makes a difference
One of the definitions to being an expert at anything is to keep upgrading your knowledge in that field. I read a definition for a master PUA that said “The mPUA is a PUA that has integrated the skills and mindsets of the lifestyle to an extent that he no longer contemplates them consciously.”
In terms of upgrading your knowledge, theoretically that is, I can recommend several cool places of the internet. A personal favorite of mine is PUA Forums, a site dedicated to the art of picking up women. There are so many great sites out there, so why do I choose to recommend this one?
Simple really! It is all about the story of the person behind the site:
Five years ago I was in an unhappy relationship, working a job I hated and was out of shape and depressed with my life. I just assumed that this is what happens in life and I should just sit back an get used to it. The good times were over, I was just prepared to admit defeat and accept the fact that I was going to be miserable like everyone else. Something inside told me there was more out there, but I had to get over my fears to make changes in my life.
Then I met some friends in New York who helped me get my life in order. I started being more active, got in shape and learned how to be more social and turned my life completely around. I built this site specifically to teach others how to live life to it’s full potential.
That, dear readers, is something I recognize and respect. Go check out the site, sign up, and plan how you are going to make this day the best day of your life, … until tomorrow comes!
However, I have had the time to do a little work for PUA Lingo, and I will be writing many more articles for your pleasure in the weeks and months to come. I have also been engaged in a TV documentary for Danish TV and hope to post some of the videos on here later this spring - so: Stay tuned.
I do realize that the frequency of newly added articles has dropped a bit as of late. That’s only because 2009 has been a very turbulent year for me - professionally as well as in my personal life. I do apologize for letting all of these unforeseen events impact the blog posting frequency, and I can guarantee you that I will do my best to ensure that you will be able to read fresh content here at least twice a month in 2010.
